The Quiet Truth That We Are All Connected

August 20th — Quiet thoughts on The Law of Oneness. 

Some truths aren't loud. They don't shout from rooftops or flash like neon lights.
They arrive quietly, in a glance, in a feeling, in a moment you can't explain.

The Law of Oneness is one of those truths. It whispers that separation is an illusion. That beneath all the roles, distances, and stories, we are part of the same infinite whole.
Like waves on the same ocean, we may appear separate, but we rise and fall from the same water.

Science tells us we're made of the same stardust. Spirituality tells us we share the same source. Either way, the message is similar: what we do to another, we do to ourselves. What we heal in ourselves, we heal in the collective.

And sometimes, life gives you a glimpse of this truth in ways that feel… impossible.

One of the strangest and most beautiful moments I've experienced happened when I was trying to let go of someone who had once been deeply important to me — my so-called karmic partner.

For weeks, I had been resisting even the feeling of missing him. I thought that if I allowed myself to feel it, I'd be stuck in the past forever.

But one evening, the pain was too much and I decided to stop fighting it.
I let myself miss him. I allowed the tears to come. I didn't try to be "over it."
I simply sat there in the softness of longing.

And then — barely ten minutes later — plim.
A message from him.

We hadn't spoken in months. We were in so called "no contact" (because, well, I don't go chasing anyone 😏).
Yet here it was.
And the tone of his words was… different.
Warm. Caring. It felt like he heard me. 

I can't explain it. Maybe it was coincidence. But maybe, just maybe, it was a quiet reminder that we're more connected than we think.

When you start noticing these moments, you realize how often they appear:
Thinking of a friend you haven't spoken to in years — and they text you the next day.
Humming a song you haven't heard in months — and it starts playing in the café you just walked into. Feeling uneasy — and later learning someone close to you was going through a hard time at that exact moment.

It's not about forcing meaning onto every event.
It's about staying open to the possibility that life is far more intertwined than we realize.

Because maybe the Law of Oneness isn't about believing in something mystical.
Maybe it's about remembering — quietly, deeply — that none of us are truly alone in our experience.

Softly,
Selflavie

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