Hi there, gentle soul

I'm the heart behind Selflavie — a sensitive, reflective human exploring healing, shadow work and self-love in real time.

I'm not a therapist or a coach. I'm  just someone who has walked through deep inner work and writes from lived experience.

Selflavie grew from a longing for softness: slow moments, honest reflections and healing that doesn't rush you. Over time, it has become a deeper space for Jungian ideas, inner child work, boundaries and the quiet shifts that change us from within.

Here, your softness isn't a flaw.
Your depth isn't "too much."
You're allowed to grow at your own pace.

Thank you for being here.
I hope something here meets you gently, wherever you are. 💜