Hi there, gentle soul

I'm the heart behind Selflavie.

I created Selflavie as a soft place to land — first for myself, and then for anyone who might need it too.

For a long time, I thought self-love was about being kinder to myself in small ways. And it is.
But over time, I realized it's also about rebuilding the emotional safety you may not have grown up with.

Selflavie lives in that space.

It's where slow living meets inner work.
Where chipped mugs and quiet rituals coexist with healing tears and difficult questions.

I'm not a therapist.
I'm someone learning — slowly and honestly — what it means to feel safe in my own skin.

Here, you'll find reflections, gentle reminders, and thoughts from the in-between moments of life.

Nothing performative.
Nothing perfect.

Just a space to return to yourself.

I'm glad you're here. 💜